Chosen Family Holiday Planner

The Chosen Family Holiday Planner is for anyone splitting the season between the people who raised them and the people who feel like home — LGBTQ+ folks, found families, friends-as-family, and anyone navigating complicated relatives. Plan the Friendsgiving, protect your peace at the other table, and build traditions that are actually yours.

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WHAT'S INSIDE (19 printable pages)

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• My Capacity This Season — what drains you, what feels like home

• Two Households, One Season — gifts, logistics & budget across both

• Who's On My List + The Gathering Plan (Friendsgiving, potlucks, whoever's bringing what)

• Say It Kindly, Say It Clearly — declining, ending a conversation, setting a time limit

• If You're Coming Out This Season — an entirely optional page, on your terms

• The Two-Gathering Day — plan the transition between tables

• The Holiday Budget + Self-Care & Recharge

• My People Directory — who to call for what

• Traditions We're Building

• Gratitude page, cut-out belonging cards, notes, and a letter to future you

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YOU'LL RECEIVE

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• Printable PDF — US Letter (8.5 x 11 in)

• Printable PDF — A4

This is a digital download. No physical item will be shipped.

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GOOD TO KNOW

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• This planner is a companion, not therapy or legal advice. If you need to talk to someone, The Trevor Project (1-866-488-7386) supports LGBTQ+ young people 24/7, and in the US you can call or text 988 anytime.

• For personal use only. Please don't resell or share the files.

• Because this is a digital item, returns aren't accepted — but if anything is wrong with your files, message me and I'll make it right.

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